, your question is:
Past
Present
Future
Past
Authoritative voices from the past may have only destructive criticism to offer. Seek the truth from a more constructive source.
Alternatively, you may find your group or tradition too confining. Exercise your individuality, and trust your own devices.
Present
Your choices may not look attractive to you, but nevertheless, a choice will have to be made in order to move past a stalemate. Face the truth, make a decision, open yourself up and move forward.
Future
You might be trying to keep the peace regardless of the cost. Examine your motives. Are you afraid of confrontation? How is your peace keeping affecting your own sense of well-being? You might be fooling yourself into believing that you are creating harmony or balance. It might be necessary to bring painful issues into the open and deal with them in order to achieve true harmony.